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Hello darlings!
At the moment I'm sitting in the first class train and havin som great and wonderful view of mother nature. It's so beautiful.

How to become an ambitious enterprising person

I just ordered the  The Go-Getter Girl’s Guide book. I heard some great reviews about it, and hope it's as good as I heard it to be. I could really use some motivation, since it's my last week of vacation.

About the book:



Every office has one – a Go-Getter Girl – someone who seems to just know certain stuff about how to get the plum jobs/lifestyle she wants and damn, always looks great while she's at it. Magic? No, it’s about strategizing--and The Go-Getter Girl’s Guide shows you how.

• Navigate the tricky terrain of office politics
• Find and use a mentor
• Figure out when it’s time to get a new job (or career)—and have the courage to act
• Dress (and groom!) for success
• And take care of yourself physically and emotionally

Other topics discussed in detail:

• Importance of Finding a Mentor 
• How to Negotiate (salary, etc) 
• Knowing When to Move On 
• Natural Beauty Doesn’t Exist 

Rolling in the...

Hello darlings!

I've been really busy these last couple of weeks, that's why the blog has been kinda deserted, but now I'm back!

This week I've been in a singing mood and keept singing rolling in the deep, this whole week. Today I got asked to sing it again out of the blue, cause he would like to hear that song in MY voice, and he is the most truthful person I know. I got happy.

Lots of love 

HotCUTEHot

Hopes & Dreams

Hello!


You know when you wake up and the day sometimes just floats by, even if you are doing diffrent things, or just sitting infront of your computer. The feeling familiar. That was not my day, my day today just felt strange, even though I was at most part doing my normal things. I've got a new perspective on things, seen some people for who they truly are. Got hopes and dreams. Got hopes, expectations and dreams clashed. Did something I regret and don't even know why I truly did it, like I was on autopilot.  

The thing that hurt the most was getting my dream ripped away from me, and the guilt of what I did (nothing big, just a small thing) knocking on my front step. After feeling bad for a while I washed away my bad feeling with my favorite drink, an ice cold exotic drink. Feelt a little better, and forgot about it for a while.  

Refreshing

I hope you all had a wonderful day

Lots of love

Little luxuries of life

Enjoying this wonderful delicious chocolate cake I made. 

Here are the ingredients for 12-16 people

• 100g butter
• 2 1 / 2 cup granulated sugar
• 2 eggs
• 1 1 / 2 cup flour
• 3 tablespoons cocoa
• 1 teaspoon vanilla

Do this

Preheat the oven to 175 degrees. Melt the butter in apan. Lift the pan from the heat. Stir in sugar and eggs, mix well. Stir in remaining ingredients so that everything is well mixed. Pour batter into a greasedand broad shape with a detachable rind, about 24 cm in diameter. Bake incenter of oven about 20 minutes. The cake gets low with a fairly hard surface and a bit sticky in the middle. Let the cake cool. Dust with icing sugar. Serve with whipped cream 

Enjoy

Just The Way You Are !

Here is a wonderful cover of Boyce Avenue, originally sung by Bruno Mars.  

Just The Way You Are ! 

Accept & be Yourself

An advice I would give to everyone is to be your self. The world would be absolutely dull if everyone were and acted the same way. There is only one of you and billion of other people, you are unique in your own way. Don't waste your time trying to be like everyone else. Love your self, do what you love and be who you are without thinking about what everyone else thinks. I see alot of people trying to fit in and hiding who they truly are and inside they are missriable because to follow along is by far the easier and less aversive decision, but it certainly isn’t a path that leads to contentment or fulfillment. I would advice you to do what interests you and attracts your attention and causes you to lose all track of time. Ignore the persuasion of what others might think, say or how you might be treated. After all, it is their fear or envy that make them to pass judgment on you because truthfully they might be jealous that you dare to be your self and they can't.
If you feel you are not being your self and are hiding who you truly are, begin today, to start being your self. Enrich your life by just being you. It is the best gift you could ever possibly give yourself, by just being yourself!!!

"Just be yourself” is a simple phrase for a very difficult task. 

It might not be easy and it might be difficult at times  

But...

Here are some pointers to help you along the way:

• Start being able to trust yourself
• Be able to listen to others’ opinions and not be swayed
• Let your unique, creative talents shine
•  Be close with people who appreciate the real you
• Don't waste time worrying about what others think,
   understand your feelings, know what makes you tick

•  accept your personal flaws and mistakes
•  Become gentler toward yourself
•  Realize you are worthy, just the way you are
•  discover your purpose

“To be nobody but yourself in a world which is doing its best, night and day, to make you everybody else means to fight the hardest battle which any human being can fight; and never stop fighting.”  

~e.e. cummings,

Advice of a lady

              

                  Be an admirable adolescent woman 

Light a candle

It's pouring rain, dark and chilly outside. On top of that we have power cuts throughout the whole district

It's nice though, gives you a prespective on things.

Lots of love

sofistikation

Paris

 
 
 
 
 
 

Another world in a piece of paper

One of the things I just LOVE to do is writing. I can spend hours writing, and enjoy it. For the moment I'm listening to this song and getting insperation for my book. I love the tingeling feeling I get when I'm writing and getting more insperation. I just love it. I remeber when I was a little girl, I use to make up and write small stories, and now that I'm grown up, it's stuck with me, to write and make up happenings and occurrences. It's one of the things that gives me  plesure. For instance right now I'm in the middle of writing a book that I'm very excited about, and hopefully one day I'll have the guts to show it to people other than my family, and publish it.  

YOU can make it possible

 

           I love Audrey Hepburn quotes especially  this one. 

Whatever you want to do, but at the moment seem impossible, set your mind to it and make it possible. You have no idea what the right mind can accomplish. If you think negetive thoughts everything will turn negative, but if you think positive thought you will eventually notice positive results. I'll tell you I often try to think as many positive thoughts as possible and every obstacle in my life I see it from the positive side or as an opportunity to grow as a person. I can really tell you that thinking made a great impact in my life. There was a time when I always saw the negative, and I can tell you it did me no good. At that time everything as saw as impossible is now in my life, and is possible. Everything seem impossible at first until YOU make it possible. The phrase Impossible is just a lock in our mind, we have to find the key and open it.

“You have powers you never dreamed of. You can do things you never thought you could do. There are no limitations in what you can do except the limitations of your own mind.”

–Darwin P. Kingsley

Your mind is a powerful thing and only YOU have the power to open it, to what seem impossible.

“Ordinary people believe only in the possible. Extraordinary people visualize not what is possible or probable, but rather what is impossible. And by visualizing the impossible, they begin to see it as possible.” -Cherie Carter-Scott

Private get away

Love your self for who you are

We all have some things we are proud of, and things we are less proud of. I always loved this saying "After rain comes a rainbow."  

For all the things that is wrong in ones life, remember "Where there is a down side there is always an

up side."

For everything you hate in yourself - forgive yourself
For everything you love about yourself - embrace it
For all you're ashamed of - forgive yourself
For all that you are proud of - embrace it
For everything you want to hide - forgive yourself
For everything you want to show up - embrace it
For everything that was not as it should be - forgive yourself
For all you are - embrace it - forgive yourself
For everything you wanted to be - forgive yourself 

Keep in mind that every single emotion you had, have and will have, has someone else already had  before you.

Someone out there have been through exactly the same things you went through.

Therefore you are never alone. It gets better.

"Give someone your smile it might make their whole day."

Lots of love 

Right way or the high way

I use to be sure of what I wanted to do with my life, my future. What my goals and dreams were. But now I'm not so sure of it any more. That spark in my heart, the fire has almost gone out for that dream, a dream I had for as long as I can remember... I'm not willing to fight for it any more as I would have for a year ago. Can someone actually change their whole perspective in few months and actually stick with it for their entire life. I'm afraid If I choose the other road, I'll regret it later in my life when there is nothing or little that can be done. I always face the same dilema when I'm about to make a great choice that will impact my future. Hopefully it will resort it self out and I'll get a peace of mind!

Take care

 Lots of love